Difficult to please by nature
It is human nature to not be easily satisfied. We always want more – whether it’s money, power, fame, love or material things like cars, houses, clothes, shoes and the list goes on. The fast paced and wealth driven society we live in is partly to blame. When you take a step back and look at our lives objectively, it’s all a rat race of sorts. We are pressured from a young age to compete and strive for more, with the false belief that it’s in the pursuit of happiness. But none of these actually make us happy until we choose to be happy.
Contentment is a choice
Happiness should be in the now. If we think we need to have more to be happy, we will never be happy – that’s the reality. Because no single person can attain all there is to have. That is why contentment is a choice. We need to make a conscious decision to appreciate what we have. To live in gratitude and not take things for granted. It takes practice. When we truly appreciate what we have, constantly and whole heartedly, more of the same will be drawn to us. It’s not wishful thinking, it’s science. Our thoughts have the magnetic power to attract things into our lives. Read more in this post which applies to work and personal lives alike: How to think your way through to career success.
Being ambitious for the right reasons
Don’t get me wrong, being content doesn’t mean you can’t have ambitions. It’s great to have ambitions – they drive us. But we should be ambitious for the right reasons – to do what we love, help people or simply to do some good in the world. When ambition is merely about wealth or power, we are back on to the rat race.
A simple life is the best life
I believe that the key to happiness is to live a simple life. To invest in relationships rather than material things and find a balance between conflicting elements. Use Oprah’s wise words to remind you to be grateful for what you have. You might not end up being the richest person in the world but you’ll surely be one of the happier ones.
What are your thoughts on being grateful and living a simple life?
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